Not sure if it’s okay for me to make a prettier post with all of the updated suggestions, but I didn’t want to edit my original comment as many people have previously quoted it and made reference to it in their posts. I have this saved in case the mods want me to delete/merge the posts or whatever. @JavaTigress if you’d like, you can link to this post (or make a summary of your own) in the first post of the topic so people have something to refer to.
TLDR: just skim through the bolde
This is a great drama-free consolidation of suggestions for alt sweetlings. Thank you, Lucere!