I agree with this. This is the reason I left the whole site, even the dragon collecting part for almost two years (I'm Yamarath on PN, by the way). I got a warn for saying I was having trouble with something, and I was told it was spam and I got a warn for it. Then I got another warn because I was posting about how upset it made me feel. When I came back, I apologized to the mod who gave me the warns because I felt like I was being a jerk to her.
On other forums I've been on, you only get warns for doing something really bad, like being rude to other members or spamming on purpose, not for accidental spam, which is what I did. Other forums just delete the accidental spam.
Even now, I rarely post except for in Forum Games section, because I'm afraid I'll do something wrong. I'm afraid I'm doing something wrong right now just posting this.